Category Archives: parenthood
Letters to Charlie: Four and Three-Quarters
Hey there, my little man, I should be packing. In a few days we’ll be moving into our new home. It’s larger than this place, where you’ve lived your entire life. There, you’ll have your own room, a backyard to run through, and … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: Almost 4 1/3 Years
Dear Charlie, Congratulations on your first night in your big-kid bunk bed! The bed comes in anticipation of your brother’s arrival (which should be in fewer than three months –– oh.em.gee.) because you two will eventually share a room. You’re … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: On Turning 4
My sweet boy, It’s the little things that strike me. You no longer need a step-stool to reach the sink. You used the word “meanwhile” correctly in a sentence. You know where the recycling bin is and what to put in it. … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: The Toddler Potty Training Edition
My dear Charlie, It feels great to write this post, the mother of a boy who pees in the potty! I strut victoriously, as if this achievement wasn’t entirely yours to claim. Because, really, Charlie—you did it. Here’s how it went … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: 3 1/3 years
Oh my dear Charlie, It’s been nearly three months since my last letter. Remember when I used to write to you every single month? Well, I didn’t have a rambunctious 3+-year-old to chase around then. We just returned from the … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: 35 1/3 months
My sweet boy, I wrote to you last in mid-February, which simultaneously feels like a long time ago, and also yesterday. When you’re a parent, this happens with time. I’ve been wanting to write this next letter for a while, … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: Hitting The ‘Wall’
Oh Charlie, “What’s the hardest part about being a parent?” “Waking up.” I heard this exchange on a podcast today while driving to work, and it resonated deeply. This weekend was tough for me. I hit that proverbial wall. You know, … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: Month 31
Dear Charlie, The rollercoaster toddler years continue. One day you are the sweetest, kindest, smartest, funniest, cleverist little dude. The next, some kind of rabid animal. When I’m not frustrated and exasperated by it all, it’s actually fascinating to watch. … Continue reading
Letters to Charlie: Month 29
My dear boy, You and I just came home from a morning spent at the pumpkin patch with Ashleigh and Savannah. You’re asleep, taking a well-deserved nap. I deserve one too, but have been too remiss in writing you a … Continue reading
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